1000+ members ➤ UNIQUE Username requirement becoming NIGHTMARE!!!

Edit Profile doesn’t work
If a Member clicks on their Pic or Name, yes, they Can get to Their Profile and Edit it.
However, I’d have to mention that and that would be too much for them.
What am I missing?

1) Edit Profile .com/membership-login/edit-profile/
(I took out [bbp_profile] code bec that didn’t work) maybe need one that got shuffled out

2) Profile: has this in body [swpm_profile_form]
url: .com/membership-profile/
When member IS logged in and click on that it comes up:
Profile
Your are not logged in.
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WP Settings
login: http://www.ourcarebooks.com/membership-login/ (OK, works)
Reg: http://www.ourcarebooks.com/membership-join/membership-registration/ (blank page)(but they are registering on Join Us so not sure about this.)

Join us: http://www.ourcarebooks.com/registration/
Edit profile page: http://www.ourcarebooks.com/membership-login/edit-profile/
pw reset page: http://www.ourcarebooks.com/membership-login/password-reset/ (OK)

Thanks *~*